It appears that you really love your in-laws and that their opinion strongly matters to you. Thank you for your email of July 3, 2019, requesting more information. But I'm assuming u want to get married, and with that in mind ur soul mate is out their somewhere! I'm 24 years old and I lost my soul mate who was 25 about a year and a half ago. And these loving feelings can live harmoniously side by side, I guarantee. Oh the sorrow. He was my everything, and still is. You WILL survive this, and your soulmate will always continue to enhance your life for the better. Thank you so much for the Beautiful reading. He was 13 years older than me but our love for each other was unlike anything I have ever felt. This new journey by our loved ones is beyond our control and is also the hardest one to accept. So after the 5th month anniversary of his death, I made up my mind that it was time to move on. Agree/disagree: The most important purpose in life is happiness? Life will never be the same. It has been 6 months now I miss him everyday. I am glad this article helped to stop your tears for one night. I am so thankful i found this article/comment section. Destiny would lead you to your soulmate, alive and kicking. First, my condolences for the loss of your soul mate. I've been in cemetery befor, and felt drawn to different parts... turned out it was a grandparent's grave I ended up in front of (about 6 or 7 great's in front of the grandma though, so my father told me)... does that mean that this person, who'd been dead a few centry's was my soul mate? My sincere condolences for your loss. He, like your own beating heart (if you listen to it), will never lead you astray, I promise. I just lost my soulmate Doug to cancer less than 3 weeks ago, this helped! Is she emo? When your soul mate dies, it takes supreme effort to acknowledge it in your own mind. It was a car accident and he died right after. I think that this is a normal (and indeed healthy) insecurity that should diminish over time. I began to read out loud so my deceased husband could hear your words, if there is such a thing. The connection that soulmates share is so strong that it brings them together time and time again. I think I have always known, even if perhaps only subconsciously, that we were soulmates, destined to be together forever. Again, thank you for taking the time to reach out and share your experience, David. May your heart and soul find renewed comfort and healing each and every day. Joy is sure to follow. She couldn't remember what happened 5 minutes ago. By loving you unconditionally, they have also freed you to love others unconditionally. Describe the issue in detail. Mireia, you deserve the right to mourn as long as you need to and in any way that you need to. In my dreams, she was upset with me until her family brought her urn. I just wanted to share my story with everyone. I don't know how to go on without him! We spent every waking moment to gather . And then the unspeakable happened ... he died out of the blue, and you were left with your shattered dreams of a future together, replaced by the nightmare of him being gone and your desire to follow him to the ends of the Earth. So when someone has discovered a soulmate connection, it can be devastating to lose that soulmate to death. Because it's been over four months since you last wrote in, I would love to hear an update from you to see how you've been holding up during this incredibly sorrowful time in your life. What does "carrying on" mean to the survivor who still has to cope with life here on Earth without the presence of the person they are grieving for? There is no way to adequately describe how it feels to lose one's soul mate unless you have also experienced it yourself. No one would understand the crushing grief I was experiencing. In the meantime, all of the opportunities to connect with other souls on this earth are passing you by unnoticed. It's been 3 years since he passed away and I recently remarried. Thank you for your private email describing your journey since your husband died.